Let’s Pretend This Never Happened by Jenny Lawson
When Jenny Lawson was little, all she ever wanted was to fit in. That dream was cut short by her fantastically unbalanced father and a morbidly eccentric childhood. It did, however, open up an opportunity for Lawson to find the humor in the strange shame-spiral that is her life, and we are all the better for it.
In the irreverent Let’s Pretend This Never Happened, Lawson’s long-suffering husband and sweet daughter help her uncover the surprising discovery that the most terribly human moments—the ones we want to pretend never happened—are the very same moments that make us the people we are today. For every intellectual misfit who thought they were the only ones to think the things that Lawson dares to say out loud, this is a poignant and hysterical look at the dark, disturbing, yet wonderful moments of our lives.
For the Reading Challenge(s):
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The Reason
It was my in-person bookclub’s Book of the Month, and I’d been wanting to read Jenny Lawson for a while.
The Quotes
“Because you are defined not by life’s imperfect moments, but by your reaction to them. And because there is joy in embracing – rather than running from – the utter absurdity of life.”
“But really, what else are you going to talk about in line at the liquor store? Childhood trauma seems like the natural choice, since it’s the reason why most of us are in line there to begin with.”
“When I was in junior high I read a lot of Danielle Steele. So I always assumed that the day I got engaged I’d be naked, covered in rose petals, and sleeping with the brother of the man who’d kidnapped me.”
The Narrator(s)
Jenny Lawson, the author herself. I absolutely loved it, she was hilarious!
My Thoughts
I listened to this on audio with the author narrating, and I think that adds tremendously to my enjoyment of the book. She’s hilarious and I love how she finds humor in everything, but she also talks about some serious issues in such a nonchalant way, making light of them, sometimes to the point where I’m wondering, “Are you okay, Jenny?” I actually had her other book “Furiously Happy” on my TBR for a while, but I ended up reading this one first because it was my in-person bookclub’s BOTM. I’m glad I did because apparently this book was her first published one. Taking a look at the other books she’s released, it looks like humor about horrible things is her niche, and yes, I absolutely want to read them all! I’m also going to try to read them all on audio because I think it’s better with her narration. The copy I listened to had a bonus chapter and some really funny outtakes of her recording process which are probably not in the printed copies!
My Rating
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐/5 stars.
Have you read this book? Would you read this book? Did you like the book or do you think you would like it?
I read this one several years ago! I have a print copy, though I’ve listened to Lawson’s other books in audio. If I reread this one, I’ll probably get the audio for it, too.
She really is hilarious, she has a new book coming out in 2026 too.